You CAN become the person you’ve always imagined. You can break the Trauma Bond and recover from Narcissistic Abuse. You can create a life you love after Divorce, without feeling like a failure. You can choose your husband wisely and experience marriage as God intended it for you.
My mission is to help you discover your worth and build your self-esteem. Strong Self-Esteem will help you build great relationships and choose your husband wisely, or help you recover from divorce and narcissistic abuse.
You can become Narcissist proof by:
1) Eliminating People Pleasing, in search of love and acceptance from others
2) Strengthening your Intuition, so you can trust yourself, and let the right people in. and others again.
3) Releasing any Anger, Guilt or Shame you're carrying
4) Learning to set Boundaries and say "No" guilt free!
5) Start attracting healthy relationships, breaking the cycle of toxic co-dependency and emotional abuse.
Self-love removes the need for validation from others, so you can make decisions that are best aligned with your values and goals. Unlock your potential and live with passion and purpose—so you can finally fulfill your dreams. Your future self is waiting. Take the first step today.
I am a Christian Coach and Hypnotherapist. My faith walk as a follower of Jesus informs my work, and my love for women needing support. I’m a proud single mother of three, living in Texas. Over the years, I’ve worn many hats—in the corporate world, as a Dog Trainer, Real Estate Broker, and in the Therapy world. Originally from Chicago, IL my life’s journey has taken me through vibrant cities like Miami, Brooklyn, and Portland, OR each leaving its mark on my perspective and resilience.
Growing up with undiagnosed ADHD and Dyslexia, I intimately understand the challenges of feeling like you don’t quite belong. I grew up in a Christian home but lacked the relationship with God that's required to sustain faith when life doesn't go as planned. I turned my back on God and scoured the earth in search of happiness and fulfillment for about 20 years. It was during my darkest hours while married to an Alcoholic Narcissist that I developed a true relationship with Jesus and gave my life to the Lord, in 2014. My experiences and the pain of rebuilding my life, as a single Mother, after divorce wasn't easy.
Negative beliefs about myself were buried deep, and still controlled my actions, even when my conscious mind didn't agree. This is where Hypnotherapy can be so helpful in the Renewing of our Minds. Hypnosis is simply a natural state of relaxation when the critical filter of our mind is more permeable. This filter determines what suggestions make it into our subconscious mind and which do not. For me, learning how to let the good in and block the bad was transformative. I changed my Associations to myself, love, and relationships. I began to honor my strengths and weaknesses. I no longer needed a partner to feel complete me, I became enough knowing God was with me. I finally released the unhealthy limiting beliefs I held onto for most of my life. I learned to accept I am who God says I am, and face life’s challenges with deep roots and flexibility.
Through this journey, I developed the system of Community, Faith, Hypnotherapy and Service to help others find the happiness and peace they desire. I’ve overcome co-dependency, people-pleasing, loneliness and low self-esteem. I've placed my faith in undeserving people and tried to "do it all" in my own strength. I've been blown around by the winds of culture, lacking roots and feeling lost.
I also know firsthand how everything changes when we give our lives to God. Learning to see ourselves as he sees us... and putting our faith in the one who never leaves us or forsakes us. It changes and reshapes our identity! Our critical self talk quiets down. The disappointment and anger we feel subsides. We're able to rest in him and allow him to guide us. We receive peace in the Spirit knowing HE can make beauty from the ashes. He is working all things together for the good of those who love him and are called to his purpose. What God has for us is for us, and no one can take it from us. We are beautifully and fearfully made.
When those truths become the prominent belief system in our subconscious minds, we heal. We stand firm in our values and boundaries. We choose partners and friends much more wisely. We're able to guard our hearts without guilt or shame.